Sunday, January 29, 2012

WE LOVE OUR COMPANIONS

This week has been amazing.  We have gone into 15 homes.  We are really trying to work hard.  It is so difficult when teaching someone with an entirely different life style from generations back.  We have learned so much.  We are continually grateful for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and its emphasis on the family. work ethics and self reliance.  How we love our children and grandchildren.  I still haven't been able to cut the emotions I constantly feel but I know this is where we belong for this short time.  The members of the Church here are so loving and kind and will do anything for you.  They feed us well.  I still haven't lost the MTC weight.
Gunn home
Every morning we do yoga.  I had no idea it was so grueling.  After that we take a 45 minute walk around town.
 It is sad to see all the homes that have been deserted but we enjoy the exercise.  We then shower and study the scriptures for at least an hour.  Dad studies every chance he gets.  He is so dedicated.
We are teaching Latyca and she is so golden.  She set her baptism date but Saturday she said she wanted to move it up.  She wants her family to be there so she will let us know later in the week.  She studies so hard and asks such good questions.
 Some of the people we visit are a ways out of town which we love because the countryside is so beautiful.  Today we say a flock of beautiful wild turkeys and a herd of deer. We are having a great time studying, eating, praying and just being together.
old barn

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Three Days in North Carolina


                                           

Well here it is Monday and I just haven’t had time to write in my journal.  We get internet Wed so I will be able to let you know  and hear of happenings.  We arrived in Yanceyville but could not find our home.  We decided to let Madge do her thing but she just led us in circles.  She was no help at all.  Finally we found it quite by accident.  We have since found that Madge is a hit and miss in NC, especially Yanceyville.
                               




 The sweetest land lady
                                                     




                           original wood floors in the rooms
                             



   quilt made by the ward when George was released as Bishop
                                                                           office
unpacking
                                                                     
 We pulled up to our home and immediately fell  in love with it.  It was built in the 1930’s and has the original wood floors.  It is such a fun little place.  It is bigger than Kristin’s but that’s a given.  We both had to go potty so decided to go to McDonalds to relieve and then went to Subway and got a sandwich.  We didn’t know which house was the landlady’s so guessed and were right.  What a pleasant and extremely kind woman.  She’s a member and just can’t do enough for us.  She lives sort of behind us and owns the whole corner.  She has a home you would all love to explorer.  It is filled with antiques.  She has a roll-top desk that her husband’s grandfather made.  All the other furniture has been made by her father, husband or grandfathers.  Amazing.  The upstairs rooms are filled boxes high with things that give her memories.  I would go crazy in there if I had a week or 10 to go through them.  She has boxes of old movie posters, cigar boxes, magazines, dolls, you name it, she has it.  Well I could go on forever. 
We unloaded our car and got to work.  Christine had gone in after the missionaries and cleaned again so it was very nice.  I will put in pictures when I have internet.  That very night some members of the ward called to invite us to go out to dinner with them.  They wanted to show us the town.  That didn’t take long.  We were surprised to see several restaurants and 2 grocery stores.  They also have 2 dollar stores.  I love the old homes from the tobacco times.  Many are falling apart and have just been left and the people moves.  It’s so sad. I will be sending some fixer-uppers for Scott and Bethany to  pine over.  Every home seems to have a smoke house and several tobacco drying sheds.  I will also send pictures of them.  Saturday we went to Danville, Virginia to go to Wal-Mart.  I will definitely send a picture of Yanceyville's Wal-Mart.

Everything ends in ville.  We bought a bookcase, shelves and a thing for over the toilet to make more space in our spacious home.  We love it.  Dad took me to dinner for my birthday at Outback in Danville.

a family in the ward  we share the same birthday
Sunday was way too wonderful.  They are the only ward in the building and church starts at 9.  Why?  We have to travel 25 minutes and some go even farther.  We left our home at 8:15 and arrived back at 9:30.  Makes for a very long but good day.  The spirit is so strong and they love missionaries.  We were invited to lunch and then dinner. We went to lunch at the  home of a member with tons of their family.  Made me miss mine.


 Our ward is full of relatives so I am always mixed up on who is whom.  Dinner was at the ward mission leader’s home.  They live about 45 minutes away.  I’ll not mention how much weight I have gained.  I knew this was the place for us when a ladybug landed on our hymn book while singing.  The talks were so good and the spirit so strong.  It was even a little bit reverent.  We were introduced to al beautiful girl, Latyca, who wants more lessons.  She is so interested in the Gospel.  She is dating a boy who has put in his papers and she wants him to go on a mission and then get married in the temple. They are both in college now. I think she will be baptized. She has set a date for Feb. 25th.   I sat with a sister who is coming to church but she doesn’t’ want the lessons yet.  She coughs like she has a smoking problem.  The gospel is true.  We met with the mission leader and are so impressed. It’s just a great ward.  While having dinner at the Hill’s we heard an enormous bomb.  Fire trucks and police cars went scurrying by but so far no one knows what it was.  It was so loud we jumped in our seats.  It was during the blessing.  We still don’t know.  We figured a home had blown up but Brother Hill said it was probably just a still.
Today we spent 3 hours trying to order internet.  We are going Comcast Wed.  We worked on the house, mailed some packages and I ironed ALL of dad’s shirts.  Tomorrow we have a meeting with an investigator and are going somewhere , we know not where, for a district meeting.  We’ll hope Madge can find it.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Eastward Ho


We left Amarillo Tuesday morning and headed for Oklahoma. I must say that Oklahoma is beautiful after Texas. Well, sort of.  At least it had a few hills and some beginning green fields.

We headed into Arkansas after Oklahoma.  Arkansas was wonderful. It had some hills and even some green fields. It also had some water in places.  We stayed the night at a place called Forrest City.  We ate at Kentucky Fried Chicken and I must say it was yummy. Dad eats breakfast at the motel and we somehow don’t have lunch (I know my family is shocked at this).


I make little treats of crackers, beef stick, and cheese and we just never seem to get hungry until
dinner. We also eat lots of chocolates. I’m sure that is good for you.







 We headed for Memphis to see Graceland the next morning. This was only for Clark. We took pictures and headed on to Nashville. Dad was in heaven.


Tennesee


                                             
Mississippi River 

 We took the tour of the Grand Ole Opry. It really was amazing. We had planned to get to Kristin’s Wednesday evening about 8, but we took so much time in Nashville that we went through the Smokey Mountains in the dark and got to Kristin’s at 11:00 p.m.  Thank goodness for Disney trivia on my iphone. It kept us awake. We won’t tell you our score.


Grand Ole Opry

Minnie Pearl
.We have played with the kids all day and it has been great. It is Jalen’s  second birthday so all is well.



                                               Saying good-by

I called the mission home to let them know we would be in Yancey for sure tomorrow. I also called them Monday. They acted very surprised and were shocked that we didn’t know how to get the key to our home. They asked if we had received the email from the couple who were there before the elders because they had things they wanted to tell us. We didn’t because the mission home forgot to send it and they can’t find it now. The elders in our home left yesterday and said they left the home clean. Yea! We are just a little nervous about the whole housing thing. Our next entry may be very interesting.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Sacrament Meeting With Uncle Del (by Grammy)

We realized that we didn't go to sacrament meeting with Del by accident. It was all in THE PLAN.

The first speaker was a young boy (17-20 years old) from Argentina. His hair was sandy blonde and he had no accent. He was a cutie. He had on a suit and tie and looked like a missionary. He told his conversion story of how a young girl at his high school invited him to read the Book of Mormon and pray. She gave it to him and he read about five verses and put it away. She did not give up. She invited him to go to church with her and meet with the missionaries. It took him several months to think about everything, but as he started reading the book again, he realized he had a different feeling while reading. He was baptized five months ago. His testimony was so strong about the Prophet Joseph and the scriptures. What a great thing to hear while going on a mission. It really juiced us up.

After his talk a young family sang “Families Can Be Together Forever.” Uncle Del and I cried through the whole song. There were two brothers and a little blonde sister. You could hear her above all the others. They were just so darn cute and sang so well. What a treat!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Crossing the Country (by Grammy)

The first day of our mission was spent at the MTC in Provo, Utah.  It was mainly a day of orientation and a day of learning the ins and outs of the whole experience. It was a relief to know that most sisters suffer from grandchild separation. I was not alone.

Tuesday we learned the first discussion and how to teach by the Spirit and not memorize what to say. That night we were able to go to a fireside where Elder Nelson was the speaker. He quoted scripture after scripture about the gathering of Israel. The best part of the meeting was when the elders were let in. They hurried down the steps like a herd of elephants. The spirit was so strong you could not only feel it, but could practically see it. When we sang Called to Serve I lost all control. What power. Of course I had to leave the meeting early (even though a sign said no one could leave before the closing prayer). How embarrassing.

Wednesday we learned how to challenge people to pray and read the Book of Mormon. We did a lot of role playing which was very helpful. It made it not so hard when we had to do it while being filmed. Our teacher,  was a very good helper and we did very well.

We ate only one meal a day and I still gained five pounds. Eating and sitting is not the best way to do things.
Thursday we learned how to teach the plan of salvation. We did it while being filmed again. Our investigator did not do her assignment, so we retaught the first lesson and recommitted her to read the Book of Mormon and pray.   Our afternoon teacher was also very helpful.

Friday we learned how to work with the inactive and help them feel the way they did when they were baptized. It was very difficult, but hope we can do it in real life. By the time we finished, we had made such friends that I feel we will keep in contact with them for the rest of our lives. We exchanged emails and hope to stay in touch. We left the MTC at 3:30 and headed home to finish packing.

Erik and family came to say good-bye before we left. That was harder than anything we had done all week. They presented us with leis. Mine was Good & Plenty’s and Dad’s was peanut M&Ms. They were leaving when Scott and his family drove up. After they said good-by, I couldn’t find Dad. He was in the car bawling his head off. I joined him. When we could see again, we headed down the road. Saying good-bye was really hard. Those grands are so darn grand.

While we were driving to Vegas, Cameron called to see how far we had gotten. We were thrilled to get there and see those sweet kids. They took us to Lucille’s for dinner. They twisted our arms so we finally went.  We love that place. We got up early Sunday to go to Uncle Del’s for church. It was so good to be with them. After church Patricia had prepared an incredible meal for us. It was a full five course meal. It was so fun to be with them and feel of the Spirit in their home. How I love my family. After our good-byes we drove to Gallup, New Mexico. There is absolutely nothing pretty about that drive other that the mountains by Flagstaff.

Tonight, Monday, we are in Amarillo, Texas. Texas had been just as barren as New Mexico. I have never seen so much land that looks just like Green River without the mountains as I have the last two days. We are having a great time together. Today we listened to a DVD Tiffani gave us called The Nashville Tribute to Missionaries. We cried through the song about a mother’s son and it’s hard to say goodbye or something like that on how hard it is to say goodbye to your mother and then all of a sudden it’s hard to say goodbye to your mission. We also listened to a DVD Clark gave us of the family favorites. We hope to make Memphis tomorrow.

On the Road

Arizona






 New Mexico

Grants, New Mexico - home of Stacey Corley
(check out Grammy in the mirror) 

Welcome to Texas





More Texas

Saying Goodbye

Saying goodbye is really hard, especially to little Nixon who won't remember Grammy and Grandad when they get back.

Leis made by Erik's family to say goodbye

Saying goodbye to Nixon and Ava in Utah. 

Saying goodbye to Cameron, Lauryn and Clara in Las Vegas.


Monday, January 9, 2012

And So It Begins!

Today Grammy & Grandad entered the MTC at 10:00 a.m. They will be there during the day and still live in their own house at night until Friday or Saturday when they will start the long drive to North Carolina (stopping in Las Vegas, NV, and Columbia, SC, on the way). It is a journey of approximately 2,777 miles and will take them through Utah, Nevada, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia, South Carolina and finally North Carolina! They will probably get to their new home sometime around January 21st (which is Grammy's birthday).

Remember to check this blog for their updates. You can find their address in the left-hand column. Be sure to write them since they will miss you very much!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Welcome to Yanceyville, Caswell County, North Carolina

Caswell County courthouse in Yanceyville; completed in 1861.

Grammy and Grandad will spend their mission in Yanceyville, so I thought we should know a little bit about that thriving metropolis and the surrounding area.
  • The town has a total area of 4.7 miles (approximately twice the size of Blanding, but per the 2,000 census there are about 1,000 less people living in Yanceyville than in Blanding).
  • Read here about the history of the town. It was a hotbed during reconstruction and was a stronghold of the Ku Klux Klan
Old Caswell County jail in Yanceyville.
  • Interesting books about Caswell County can be found here.
  • The Caswell County Training School (renamed the Caswell County High School) was started here by African Americans who wanted to establish equal educational opportunities for their children. It was a fully accredited high school.
Yancey House built around 1810.
  • Historic walking guide of Yanceyville (you know I'll be doing this tour!).
  • Slightly over half of the population, 50.3%, is African American (the percentage  is significantly higher than the state average). 
Azariah's Olde Storehouse built in 1817 - oldest commercial building in Yanceyville.
  • 67% of the population over 25 years of age has graduated from high school, but only 6% have graduated from college.
  • Yanceyville is only about 30 minutes from both Duke and North Carolina University.
  • In 2009, over half of the population lived in poverty.
  • 51% of the population voted for Obama while 48% voted for McCain.
  • Only 28% of the population considers themselves affiliated with a religious congregation (as compared to 50.2% for the U.S. overall). By far the majority of those are Baptists, followed by Methodists (although the Methodists are more active in church attendance). Looks like there's lots of work for Mom & Dad to do!
Hyco Lake in Caswell County

Farewell Photos

One of the hardest things about going on a mission is leaving behind friends and family, but I know from the missions served by all four of my grandparents that having a grandparent on a mission leaves a life-long example like no other. We will all be blessed by Grammy and Grandad's mission.

 Not sure how these two will survive without each other. 








Am I the only one that thinks my siblings and their spouses are beautiful people??!! 

Hardest part about going...we'll call this the "before" picture and take another one in 18 months. 

Family hug!